Lose the Debate

A Practical Guide to Emotional Intelligence and Successful

About the Book

Lose the Debate: A Practical Guide to Emotional Intelligence and Successful Dialogue will provide you with the strategies you need to better understand a conversation partner’s point of view, and effectively express your own. Through the ACTER model, Dr. Allen shares tips and real-world examples on how to effectively engage in courageous conversations at work, with friends and around the dinner table.

Highly recommended !!!

Emotional intelligence has always been a somewhat elusive concept for me, but this guide has turned the tables. The practical approach breaks down complex psychological concepts into digestible, actionable steps. Each chapter is not just informative but also introspective, pushing the reader to apply these principles in daily life. I particularly appreciated the real-world examples and exercises that encouraged self-awareness and empathy. This isn’t just a book; it’s a tool for personal and professional growth. Highly recommended for anyone looking to enhance their emotional intelligence and interpersonal skills.

-- Kevin Murphy

Lose the Debate has something for EVERYONE!

Dr. Allen has written a book that has the power to positively impact both professional and personal relationships. She thoughtfully coaches readers, giving us the skills to approach difficult conversations or challenging situations with empathy and understanding. Lose the Debate is right on time for a year that holds the potential for great division and discord. I recommend this to anyone who is a people leader.

-- Vicki F.